Bridesmaid posts a photo of the bride’s gown on Facebook and tag her boyfriend: ‘I’m gutted’

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In a message, and that is to make sure that each and every bride-to-be shudder with horror, one of the women has revealed that her bridesmaid is the ultimate faux pas by posting a picture of her wedding on Facebook.

And the worst is yet to come. Not only was the bride IN the dress, as it was taken during their last modification, but the bridesmaid is also tagged her boyfriend in the post.

Take it to Mumsnet to ask for advice, and she said, “I know I should probably just wanted to hear other opinions as to whether or not they would be sad or if I just need to get a grip!

“Getting married soon, and after trying a lot of different dresses, I finally found the one, which is something I never thought I would be because of the extremely body conscious, and fearful. Went back in for a final fitting over the weekend and took one of my bridesmaids if they wanted to see. At the conclusion of the appointment, and getting home, I saw that she had posted a picture of me in the dress on Facebook (during the event, so it was an hour or two, and when I saw it).

“They’re tagged with my partner, in saying that, they bets, and he couldn’t wait to marry me and how beautiful my dress is. When I asked her to remove it and her response was, ” it doesn’t matter if he’s seen it all, he is not a man, that he’s forgotten what it’s like in just 5 minutes of your time.’ My father had seen it as well, and it was a surprise for him on the day as well.

“I just don’t know what to do or how to feel! I am so upset that it’s not a surprise for my partner’s or my father’s. She knew how much it meant to me, and the only thing I asked for was that the details of how I was going to look like on the day, which was kept as a surprise from my dad and a partner. If I can be paid in installments, the dress has now been paid in full, and I don’t have time to get another one, and all of the changes, etc.). We wanted to tell you that I will stop feeling like this soon.”

And let’s just say that the other Mumsnet users, was taken aback for a moment, with a lot of pure disbelief, and that for the bridesmaid and thought that it was acceptable.


He wrote: “I’m sorry, but they are not allowed to you, a friend or a bridesmaid. I can’t believe that someone would do that. Your dress is your secret until the day of the wedding. Do you think maybe she’s jealous that you’re going to get married, because there’s really no excuse for the post and the tag of your dress on Facebook.”

Others admitted that they would be “outraged” and he advised the bride to “ditch”her.

Another tried to reassure the woman that the dress would be different on the day, after her hair and make-up were done. “The bag of the bridesmaids,” she wrote.”Don’t worry, your clothes will look a little different when your hair and make-up done, etc., etc. I try not to let it spoil the day.”


The post has so far racked up hundreds of comments with fellow brides to be completely shaken up by what had happened.

Still, she explained, was lost for words as hundreds of angry members will be advised of the bride to uninvite her, as well as to strip her of her bridesmaid’s role.

“I’m actually lost for words. She is a nasty piece of work,” said.


Later on in the post, the father said, “no, No, I haven’t officially fired her yet, you will know that I have to go, but we just don’t have the energy to deal with it and to find the right words. It will be soon.”

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This article was originally published in The Sun.

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